Hi, I’m Izzy.

I’m interested in the meaning behind the gesture.

A relationship can have all the obvious romantic moments, but I think the tiny ones often tell you more.

I notice whether someone remembers, whether effort feels mutual, whether we can be playful together and whether it feels safe to ask for reassurance when I need it.

This is a personal journal rather than relationship advice. I’m writing down what I’m learning as I go.